Saturday, March 29, 2014

#20 "Spoken Dish" Memoir: Lemon Soup for the Soul

            “Some people think the most precious gift you could inherit is healthful, delicious food.” (Smith, Heirloom Foods).  The summer of my seventh grade year, I took a trip to my grandmother’s family house on the Greek island of Ikaria and learned just that. It was the hottest summer they’d seen in fifteen years. Islanders couldn’t stop sweating; both in the air conditioning and in the sea.  So, obviously my grandmother decided to make her famous, piping hot lemon soup.

A steady, hundred degree heat radiated off my grandmother’s tile and into my sweaty palms.  I caught a glimpse of the crystal ocean outside. Crashing waves mixed with the hum of the kitchen sink.  The cracking of an egg. Peeling the ponytail from my dripping neck I readjusted to feel the fan’s cool air.
             “Koukla mou!”  A slight moan. I was finally comfortable. “The avgolemono is hot and ready!” 
            “But it’s ninety-seven degr…”  A wrinkled hand grabbed me from the waist and hoisted me to standing. 

 
            She didn’t even feel the Greek, afternoon heat.  Her eyes were fixed on the stove in the next room and her manicured fingers were wrapped around my wrist like a serpent.  I heard her begin her lecture on not letting any ingredient go to waste. I had heard it so many times I wasn’t even annoyed.  Growing up during the Depression, she had learned to live in a way far different from my American upbringing.  Unlike my littered dinner plates, hers were spotless.  Whereas I had made a personal decision to loathe green beans, she loved every food equally.
            “I want you to give these chicken scraps to the birds by the fence.”  She handed me the meat, ignoring the look of horror on my face.
            “But…that’s cannibalism.”
            “Birds deserve a nice dinner too.”  She gently pushed me out the door and closed it.
            The next part of the story is too painful for me to reiterate but I can tell you that it involved a parade of unknowing chickens eating their siblings. The craziest part is that when it was over, I felt a deeper love for my grandmother and her beliefs about food.  Even today, she never leaves the table without giving a few noodles to my dog.  Her affection towards humans is equal to that towards every other living thing. In his series on Culture, Food, and Identity, Mervyn Claxton says that “eating together is an important social act […] a recognition of fellowship and mutual social obligation”.  For my grandmother, this social act is extended towards all.  A stereotypical Greek “yiayia”, she never turns someone away from a meal, is always cooking, and constantly finishes her sentences with, “you’re too skinny.”

 
According to Foster, eating together says, “I’m with you, I share this moment with you, I feel a bond of community with you.” (Foster 11)  As it relates to those poor chickens, this statement is all but too true.  As it relates to the entire world, I believe that this belief needs more followers. I’ve learned that food is, in some ways, the greatest equalizer.  In her novel, You are What You Eat, Claudia Cornejo asserts, “Culinary skills and choices often reflect social and personal identity.”  One of those choices being, “the ingredients considered edible”.   Sure, my grandmother’s version of edible often seems a bit extreme.  But it’s that unwavering spirit that has allowed her to open her arms to all different types of people and invite them into her life. Since that summer in Greece and in my continuous run-ins with avgolemono soup, I have come to realize that food isn’t just keeping our bodies running; it’s keeping our souls alive.
    
Works Cited

Claxton, Mervyn. "Culture, Food, and Identity." Series on Culture and Development.
            Vol. 6. N.p.: n.p., n.d. N. pag. Normangirvan.info. Web. 17 Mar. 2014.

Cornejo, Claudia A., H. "You Are What You Eat: Food as Expression of Social Identity." Home
             Cooking in the Global Village. Oxford: n.p., 2006. 176. Cromrev.com. Web. 17 Mar. 2014.

Smith, Brad. "Heirloom Foods." PBS. PBS, n.d. Web. 17 Mar. 2014.

Foster, Thomas C. How to Read Literature like a Professor: A Lively and Entertaining Guide to         
             Reading between the Lines. New York: Quill, 2003. Print.

 

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